For women who do everything right

You won the rigged game.
Now what?

The "do it all" model isn't designed for you to thrive. You hold up your end: the career, the family, the strength. The deal is broken from the start. You're done carrying it alone.

"I did everything right. I followed the rules, I worked hard and I'm still feeling like I need to do more. I built this whole life and I can't figure out why it feels hard to enjoy any of it."

— Erika, VP

Sound familiar?

If you felt something reading that, a tightness, a recognition, maybe even anger, you're in the right place.

01

You gain the right to work, lead, and build. But the world never restructures to support you. No real parental leave. No affordable childcare. The roles expand while the infrastructure stays the same.

02

You become so strong that nobody thinks to be strong for you.

03

The model asks for everything and gives back nothing. That's not your failure.

You didn't fail. You won a rigged game.

They tell you that you can have it all. Nobody mentions you'll be carrying it all alone. The world gives you more power and more responsibility but zero more help.

You get the right to work, earn, lead, and build, but the infrastructure doesn't change. The expectations at home don't shift. The support never shows up.

You're not exhausted because something is wrong with you. You're exhausted because the "do it all" model asks for everything and gives back nothing. And you've been running on force, not fuel, for longer than you care to admit.

Signs you're winning a game that isn't designed for you to thrive

1

You're the one everyone counts on, and nobody counts on anyone for you

2

You become so capable that everyone stops asking if you need help, including you

3

You feel guilty when you rest and resentful when you don't

4

The insomnia, the jaw clenching, the Sunday dread: your body is keeping score

5

You can't remember the last time you did something just for you without it being "productive"

6

You've thought "I should be able to handle this" more than once this week

The Rigged Game Checklist

10 Signs You're Winning a Game That Isn't Designed for You to Thrive

A short, honest self-diagnostic that names what you've been feeling and tells you it's not your fault. Because the model is broken. Not you.

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The Rigged Game Checklist

10 Signs the Model Is Breaking You

You're the one everyone counts on, and nobody returns the favor
You feel guilty resting and resentful not resting
Your body is keeping score (insomnia, tension, dread)
You can't remember the last time you did something just for you
You've thought "I should be able to handle this" this week

My Promise to You

"I help successful women who won the rigged game of 'do it all' stop carrying it alone, so they can finally build a life that gives back as much as they give."

Loving Your Limits: A Compass Method™ Masterclass

The masterclass that shows high-performing women why they're exhausted and what to do about it. 75 minutes of teaching, real conversation, and the framework that changes everything.

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6 months. Your terms. Real change.

This isn't a program you squeeze into your already-full life. It's the thing that finally makes your life work for you.

Months 1–2

Find Your Compass

Clarify your values. Identify what's actually draining you. Stop running on force and start building on fuel.

Months 3–4

Rewrite the Rules

Navigate the barriers. Set boundaries that hold. Unlearn the patterns that keep you carrying everything alone.

Months 5–6

Rebuild on Your Terms

Integrate joy. Solidify the transformation. Build a life that works as hard for you as you've worked for everyone else.

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Clarity Sprint

$497 / 2 sessions over 2 weeks

Two focused sessions to map where the rigged game is costing you most, identify the first rules to rewrite, and experience what coaching with me actually feels like.

Credit toward the full container if you continue.

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Deep Transformation

6-Month Compass Method

$7,000 / payment plans available

The full Compass Method to Transformation™. Three 1:1 coaching sessions a month, somatic and nervous system tools, boundary frameworks, and ongoing support between sessions.

Stop playing by broken rules. Rebuild on your terms.

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"What truly stood out to me was Kathleen's dedication to empowering me. She consistently encouraged me to set achievable goals and supported me every step of the way. Her guidance was instrumental in helping me overcome obstacles and achieve personal milestones I once thought were out of reach."

— Coaching Client

I am the strong one, too.

30 years as a nurse and healthcare leader. Always in go-mode. Always caring for everyone else while quietly running on force. I am a force to be reckoned with. Unstoppable. Until my body made the decision my mind wouldn't.

Now I help women like me, the strong ones, the capable ones, the ones nobody checks on, stop paying the price for a model that was never designed for us to thrive.

Not by blowing up their lives. But by rewriting the rules from the inside out. So they can finally build something that actually works for them.

Board-Certified Nurse Coach  |  BSN, RN, HWNC-BC  |  10+ Years Coaching Experience  |  30 Years in Nursing

— Kathleen

Done carrying it alone?

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